Friday, February 25, 2011

Trust and condoms...

Trust and condoms...hmnnn, what?, you say. Why'd the hell is my post entitled so?. First and foremost, "trust" is a valuable thing to have and "condoms" are a good metaphor to use when going into something(insert smile here). Always wear protection so that your trust wont get ruptured.

Kidding aside, lets start this little post by starting with an ending.

It goes: Lately, I have been the happiest person on my own scale of 1 to 10. 1 being the lowest form of happiness and 10 being the highest. Just a little bit of rough edges here and there, but still, i feel happy though.

I'm happy because I found a new meaning to my life and that I gained new wisdom, a wisdom that made me realize that "Trust" is immemorial as "Love" itself. The basic foundation for "Love"

When you trust somebody, you give all, you receive all, well, thats the theory.

But, you come across all sorts of people that you yourself set up different degrees of barriers of trust. outermost layer or barrier of your "trust" denotes those acquaintances that have limited access to your trust and innermost layers or "trust barrier" are for people whom are dearest to you who have an almost "all-access" to your "trust barrier" who we can safely say are "trustworthy" people or sets of friends.

Keeping this in mind, "it happens to the best of us".

A trust has been made and suddenly at the back of your mind you say, Why is this so happening? you trust but you get a weird feeling, you then ask again, am i just a tool for their own satisfaction? ready to be thrown away the minute i'm useless to their goals? or, am i just someone who happens to be given a genuine treatment? hmnnn.... makes you kinda wonder, huh?

Well i've gone past that stage and it really happens to the best of us.

You trust, and then you trust some more. But, a little voice in your head says, don't just give in, think before you leap or you'll reap what you sow.

Just because they show you what they want you to see. They meant really to do it right? some are genuine some are "NOT".

As i mentioned previously, set yourself some type of a "trust barrier" with different layers.
This will serve as a self protection method that you'll develop over time as you encounter new sets of people.

I recently came across a few "mishaps" that I myself have come to feel stupid of, but a friend says otherwise. With that, I thank my friend, you are really cool, thank you! ^_^'

Ciao! till next post...